Monday, June 05, 2006

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This is our Dog Spot.... This is her favorite perch. She loves to sit on the back of the couch looking out the window. She is our unofficial doorbell. She barks at the passing trucks and school children. We didn't find Spot....she found us. Spot came to live with us 10 years ago after a storm left the city flooded. Spot showed up on our porch with another displaced dog, both tired, wet, and hungry.

Mr. Wonderful, a very practical man, gave me strict orders that I was not to feed the animals and that they would find their way home when the water went down. Our kids fell in love with both and played "fetch" with the dogs and of course fed them.

Several days later both dogs disappeared off the porch and were gone all day. We assumed they must have found their way home and we went on with our life. The next morning we found Spot back on the porch. She was soaked and looked like a drowned rat.

Baby Girl couldn't stand it any longer so she brought her inside, bathed her, fed her and named her. Mr. Wonderful was less than thrilled. His first words were, "We're not having an inside dog! You've got to find her owner!"

We did try. We called all the vets, put up found dog posters and even an ad in the paper. No one lay claim to her and before long she was just part of the family. We had had Spot about two years when one of my daughter's friends was at the house and suddenly said:

"I know that Dog!"
"No you don't", I quickly added.
"I'm sure I do." she persisted.
"She's my neighbor's dog, I'm sure of it".

Daisy Dilemma: Do you give back a dog after investing two years of your life and love into it?

Turns out that the neighbor had another dog by now and was delighted that the dog had found a good home. Good thing as I would have hated to move to Canada just to protect a family member.

Would you have given up the dog if the owners had come to get her?

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Posted by Lazy Daisy at 11:00 AM |

29 Comments:

At 7:29 PM, Blogger kenju said........
That IS a dilemma. I would not want to give it up; especially if the previous owners did not do all that they could to find their dog when it was originally lost.

Michele sent me.
 


At 8:32 PM, Blogger YellowRose said........
I agree with Kenju, it would be hard to give the dog back to someone who didn't seem to concerned about it when it was missing! It would be hard to give the dog up after you got close to it! Glad things worked out!!

My MM will be up later.
 


At 9:35 PM, Blogger Sherri said........
Oh God has such a good way of working things out:)
 


At 9:41 PM, Blogger Barbara said........
I don't know, I wouldn't want to, but I would try to do the right thing. I can't put my finger on the right thing right now.
 


At 10:11 PM, Anonymous Ma said........
Yes, I would have given her back, but I would have asked if I could see her every now and then.

My MM is up.

BTW, I like the falling daisies. :)
 


At 11:45 PM, Blogger Renee said........
Apparently NOT because I didn't...here's our story.

I had been searching online for a dog at our local shelters. The one near us had a listing on Saturday for a dog named Sue Lee that DD & I were very interested in. By Sunday her listing was removed and we were disappointed.
On Monday I checked again and her picture was back up...so we went to the shelter to find out what was going on.

Sue Lee was dropped off on Fri night after her owners had found out from their landlord that they were not allowed to have any pets. Apparently Sue Lee was adopted from a box of puppies at the grocery store.
She went home with a family on Saturday who had just lost their older dog of a similar look.
She was returned the next morning because the family soon realized that they were not ready for a puppy.
When we got to the shelter on Monday there was a HOLD on her. The interested party had to see if their landlord would allow pets. I asked if we could be the second hold, the shelter said no I had to be there when the hold expired.
So DD & I went to the mall and returned at 4:30 (hold expired at 5pm). No word from the hold family.
But this lady who comes to the shelter everyday looking for a dog wanted the dog too...but after she met DD she said that we could have her since we were there first and DD was almost ready to turn on the water works. hee hee
So at 4:45 still no word from the hold family, we've been "there" all day and the shelter guy starts processing the paperwork for us. YAY!
We get almost everything done and the original owner shows up. Her landlord said they could pay a pet deposit...but the shelter said she couldn't have her back because they don't allow it after you surrender your dog.
We finish our paperwork but can't take Lilly home with us because they have to spay her first. (I still don't understand how that one family had her overnight with no spay.) So Lilly is put back in her pen and DD & I "say good night" to her. DD is in tears because Lilly wants us. And 1st owner is still there she figures out that WE took "Her" dog...so she follows us to our car and tries to talk us into giving her the dog back...she'll pay us.
I say no because DD is in the car ready to turn on the water works. A guy from the shelter comes out to make sure we're okay. Crazy 1st owner is trying everything she can think of to get the dog back and I say no...but I did tell her that I would think about letting her visit...yeah right.

Do I feel bad about taking her dog? not very. I knew that I would give the dog a better life with no worries of a landlord. And we have never once thought about getting rid of her for any reason. She's an awesome dog.
 


At 1:39 AM, Blogger purple_kangaroo said........
If they wanted the dog back, I'd want to hear the whole story and see how the dog responded to them before making a decision.
 


At 6:57 AM, Blogger FRIDAY'S CHILD said........
I love dogs too and I don't think I can decide on this. Probably not. If they really cared for their pet how come they didn't put up a lost dog sign or something.
 


At 6:58 AM, Blogger mar said........
You certainly have the cutest Spot :) Tough decision, Lazy Daisy...good thing the neighbors had another dog ! (I wouldn't have given the dog back, no)
 


At 7:33 AM, Blogger Beckie said........
Hi Daisy! Great story about a great dog! Give Spot a hug for me.

My MM is up.
 


At 8:06 AM, Blogger Wystful1 said........
Oh my goodness. I have tears of joy that you now have had her in your life! What a story.

I'm really not part of the Monday Memories but I wanted to drop by and thank you for visiting with me over at ...thanks for the memories this morning!!!

Hugs
 


At 8:26 AM, Blogger Carmen said........
That's a hard call. I probably would've given the dog back, but I would've tried everything to talk the owner into letting me keep it and given them visitation rights. :)
 


At 8:35 AM, Anonymous Lifecruiser said........
I guess it all depends on how the owners were. To a bad home? probably not, I would have done anything to fight that. To a good home? Very tough. I mean, if it were my dog that had been taking care of I would certainly have wanted my dog back and can undertsan the feelings. I guess it require a lot of negotiation!
 


At 8:37 AM, Blogger FrogLegs said........
LOL!!!!!!!!!!! That's pretty funny. :) A good home, is a good home. :)
 


At 10:06 AM, Blogger The Shrone said........
I'd try to work out some kind of reasonable compromise, with my position being I'd want to keep the dog. My MM is up!
 


At 10:19 AM, Blogger MysteriousLady said........
I'm so glad you didn't have to give her back! Thank God!
 


At 11:49 AM, Blogger Ocean Lady said........
If the dog looked emaciated and uncared for I would definitely not give the dog back. If the owners were good, but many years had gone by, I'd wonder why they didn't have posters up or something looking for their dog. I hope I made sense. My kids are running around dancing to music, so my head is swirling.
 


At 4:06 PM, Blogger Chi said........
If I knew the original owners really loved the dog & would treat it well, I probably would return him but oh, it would definitely break my heart. I know I'm not a Momday Memories participant but I can't resist posting when animals are involved.
 


At 4:58 PM, Blogger Libragirl said........
Ok, this is going to get me lynched, but I wouldn't have taken the dog in. I would have brought it to a vet or someplace...ok, who am I kidding, I would have left it outside....I am not an animal person...sorry...I just don't get it. No one in my family is, please don't kill me.

MY mm is up...I don't like animals, but I adore kids...does that redeem me some.
 


At 5:10 PM, Blogger Cat said........
I have taken in foster animals and invested time in them. Each time, knowing they were strays (and having my own dog) I kept very unattached to the animals so that I could find them new homes.

Now, your story is different because you invested time and effort into the animal as a pet to keep. I'm afraid the emotions would be high on that. Not sure how I would handle it seeing as how the old saying is "possession is 9/10ths of the law" would probably hold in that situation.

The law would be on your side but I think the other side, if they had been searching for the dog, would need consideration. Since they weren't--I'm glad you have a good pet. :)
 


At 5:56 PM, Blogger Viamarie said........
A tough decision. What you did was not fostering so I personally feel you have the right to keep the dog.

Have a great day!
 


At 7:05 PM, Blogger Norma said........
I would give the dog back if they wanted it, because I would want mine back if it happened to me. You were fortunate that they had moved on and were willing for you to keep their dog.
 


At 7:25 PM, Blogger It's a FLIP-FLOP World said........
Hey nice to see a picture of Spot again. I would never have given her up either. You know how we feel about pets. They become like a member of the family!!
 


At 8:14 PM, Blogger Susan said........
Oh I don't know what I would have done!! At that point, it seems the dog would have "forgotten" his or her owners...and I DO agree with the person who said that they wouldn't want to return the dog when you tried so hard to find the rightful owner. Spot looks VERY comfortable!!! Some things happen providentially...you know?

I keep hoping one will drop into our laps as well...DH doesn't want another one (ours died in August). I can't, however, see all the DSs going without one for the rest of their time at home.
 


At 11:12 PM, Blogger purple_kangaroo said........
My MM is up now.
 


At 11:25 PM, Blogger Shelli said........
That is a really, really tough one. I am not sure what I would do. What if they had children who had been missing the dog? I don't know. Beautiful dog, though.
 


At 9:41 AM, Blogger Katherine said........
Wow, what a good, thought-provoking question. Depends on the situation...in my case, we got our dog from a rescue. The original owners had him and his sister for 3 years before they had a baby and then decided the dogs were too much work. So I absolutely would not give MY dog back to those people. But, if someone truly lost their dog and had been actively looking for it, I probably would give him back even though it would tear my heart out.
 


At 10:40 AM, Blogger PixiePincessMom said........
That would be tough thing to do. Izzy came to us by way of a friend down in Houston who found her on her doorstep. For 2 weeks they walked the neighborhoods surrounding their home to find her owner & no such luck. My friend's DH said to take it to the pound but I couldn't stand the thought so we drove the 5 hours to their home to get her. I don't know if I could give her back should the original owner come knocking on the door. She's my baby. But knowing it would be the right thing to do......... I probably still wouldn't do it. LOL!

Spot looks so sweet perched on her spot.
 


At 12:59 AM, Blogger mompoet said........
Spot looks like a happy dog indeed. What good fortune for all of you that she found you and that you have kept her. My family was worried about "the old owner" after we adopted our Soleil at the shelter. The kids asked all the time what we would do if her old owner met up with us and tried to claim her. For a long time I thought whenever someone walked past and gave her a special look, "Maybe that's her old person, happy to see that she's okay with us." Now it's more than 3 years and we don't worry so much. But we still wonder about her previous family, who must have loved her and been kind to her, as gentle and sweet and people-loving as she is (and very good in the house and in the car). Sometimes I wonder, why didn't they look for her? Why didn't they find her? Then I remember, it's a good thing for us that they did not.
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